To start with, you don’t really have to wait for a day like Valentine’s Day to make someone feel that you really care, to make someone feel that they are really special in your eyes. But since we are talking about Valentine’s Day here, you can follow a few very simple principles to ease up things for yourself and make her feel special.
The first and the most important thing is knowing what makes her feel special. You know her, and you should know what makes her special. This will help you decide on your actions easily.
You must be wondering what you can do to really make her feel special or make her realise that you really care for her. Let’s be clear on this point: it doesn’t matter at all that how much you spend on the gift. What really matters is the meaningfulness of the gift and how personal it is.
“If there’s anything that you want, if there’s anything I can do; just call on me and I will send it along-with love, from me to you.” – The Beatles
If there’s just one rose, or her favourite flower that comes out unexpectedly, that will be more valuable to her than the best cup of coffee in the world. If she works hard and gets tired, a nice breakfast in bed can provide her with extreme delight. Just a nice evening walk on the beach, just when the sun is setting, can touch her soul like no other thing can. Yes, it’s very much true that money can’t buy you love; these are the little ways in which you can express your love and affection to her and make her feel special.
Now it’s really important that you know what warms up her heart. For some, it can be gifts, no surprise. It may make them feel special because you put your time thinking about it and bought her that very thing which makes her feel special. There’s nothing very much stereotypical about chocolates or flowers. They can be really special if delivered in great delight and in a special way.
Now these are just the basic things you can do. What matters too is how you present things to her. I remember a friend of mine who took her bed with rose petals all over it, woke her up in the morning with a nice breakfast on bed, and then he handed her a card, a self-made card that had all the things he loved about her. And the lady was delighted. He said that this was the best Valentine’s Day for her.
You can do something like that too, but again, remember her taste. This is very important. If you are in doubt regarding this, you can ask her friends for advice. You would not want to present her with something that she doesn’t like at all. Thing well, take your time, and remember that Valentine’s Day is to celebrate love and affection, above her.